A man stops going to smorgasbords because his appetite for “all you can eat” has changed, not because one of the dishes at the smorgasbord was so good that it’s all he wants to eat for the rest of his life.
Woman, you may have swaying ability, the ability to sway a man’s attention from another woman. You may be very aware of those powers, but if you were as aware of your worth, you’d never accept a swayable man.
A smart woman knows it’s a misuse of her powers and she knows that a swayable man will soon sway from her too. He’s susceptible to the bait used but not really interested in you.
When you attract a man by swaying or persuading him, the pressure is always on you to keep him satisfied and to keep his attention on you. That’s because you’ll forever know that whatever you did to get him, the next woman who wants him only needs to do it better (or just differently) because you know he’s baitable, thus swayable. What a miserable existence you will have created!
Hear me ladies; in the words of my father, Sam Green Sr.: “There are no winners when you enter a man’s rotation, and no man is worth the price you’ll have to pay to compete.”
You can’t build a healthy relationship with somebody whose attention is divided. If you don’t have his undivided attention when you start, you won’t gain it as you grow.
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