A real man gives up one-night stands for a woman he can’t stand to spend one night without.
This sentiment is regularly shared via social media, and every time I see something like it I want to shake the women behind the posts. Women really need to think! Put your egos aside (yes, women are ego-driven, too) and THINK because women who believe this end up jockeying for men and hurting one another, and that’s not okay.
Hear this ladies, meditate on it and don’t ever forget it:
A man not committed to fidelity on general principle will NOT make an exception for you!
Stop believing that there’s something you can do, be or become that can change another person.
Women have given men a pass for being players. I’ll prove it. You accept statements like, “I’ll settle down when I find the right woman.” That’s a load of crap! It’s BULLSHIT! And women accept it. Men are players because women allow them to play. In the Grown Zone, we repeat: You don’t get what you deserve, you get what you accept!
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Zara Green (ZaraGreen.com) is co-founder, with Alfred A. Edmond Jr., of Grown Zone Relationship Education. She is an author, speaker and trainer specializing in personal growth, resiliency development and individuality advocacy. Certified as a Heal Your LifeTM workshop leader (based on the philosophy of Louise Hay), she is best known for helping others to understand individual temperaments as a key factor of healthy, productive life management, empowering them to always make their Next Decision BetterTM. A highly sought-after public speaker, Zara is also known for her popular Grown IS SexyTM and PooNannie PrinciplesTM messages and teachings, focusing on healthy relationship choices founded on love of self, respect of others, and taking personal responsibility for securing both. For women in particular, Zara has garnered a passionate and vocal following for her teachings on proactively making H.E.R.—Honor, Esteem and Respect—a non-negotiable prerequisite to securing happy and fulfilled lives. Zara is also a professional actor, singer and voice over artist.
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