And then, don’t just say it—show it! Focus on treating yourself with the love, affection, tenderness, respect, security and attention you’ve longed for and/or have been selflessly giving to others. (Almost a decade ago, early in his journey to self love, personal growth and healthy relationships, Alfred literally sang his favorite rhythm-and-blues love songs to himself in the mirror, until it stopped feeling awkward and he meant every word of it, and he gradually began treating himself accordingly.) Once you become convinced that you deserve nothing less than excellent treatment and healthy love, you will attract those who agree with you. Also, you will have little or no trouble bypassing those who don’t.
Begin a committed, faithful relationship with excellence. Great relationships don’t happen by chance, but by choice. Finding and keeping the love of your life does not happen by accident, but only with an intentional commitment to self love, personal growth and healthy relationships. And to keep that love going, you must resist the temptation to go back to your “ex”: mediocrity, and the common, average choices and relationships it promises, and that you were once comfortable with. Don’t let nostalgia trick you into believing that you were actually happy with your ex!
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Trust us: The effort will be more than worth it. Once you find and make an unwavering commitment to the greatest love of your life, you’ll have it forever, regardless of your relationship status. You’ll never put up with mediocre relationships again.
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