Everybody, not only wants love, but needs it. There are times throughout life when you may be more focused on school, career, parenting or your own personal growth – all great reasons to not be boo’d up – but there will come a time when you’ll want a consistent romantic relationship; somebody to share your life with.
But too often, women who desire somebody to love them all life long are settling for those who only want to love them all night long. And make no mistake, loving you all night long multiple nights is not the fast track to being loved all life-long.
Men are not exempt! They too get caught up in one-sided relationships based on sexual compatibility and later realize that they’ve given far more than they’re getting because they are not compatible in areas that actually keep couples together (NO, it ain’t sex!). Only then, they’re in deep (money, property, marriage, children) all because the sex was good. They didn’t get to know their sexual “conquests” before committing to them.
Nobody should EVER accept f-ed up, unloving choices and/or treatment as part of “being in love.” Because in these cases love has nothing to do with it. It never does.
Ladies and gentlemen: Don’t confuse sexual availability with a long-term desire FOR you and certainly not a commitment TO you. And don’t confuse one’s willingness to allow you to financially rescue them (sponsor/benefactor/pay a bill/buy a purse/trips/…) as love for YOU!
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